ESCORT ETIQUETTE - TIPS & HINTS - PRIVATE ESCORT WORLD
Both Clients and Private Escorts are always full of questions in regards to the Industry and how to do certain things properly etc.
The Industry has changed from what it was before. Where once it was hidden and supposedly naughty and frowned upon by society or part thereof, it has now come out in the open, holds a certain amount of respect and awe, especially from women who are curious and want to know what goes on behind closed doors.
The older generation although not fully understandable of the Sex Industry world, still holds a morbid fascination for it as well. Hence why they all flock to the tourist brothels to see what it really looks like inside! Is it as bad as what one was bought up to believe?
Nowadays, having the tax department require all sex workers and Industry related people such as strippers etc. having to pay tax, it has become more like a business. The workers now have ABN numbers and their own companies where they pay tax and claim tax as any other business and therefore makes it more legitimate regardless of the laws. Many people in government try to control the Industry at the same time they look at it without fully understanding what they are doing and hence can never come to an agreement about it. Of course never having worked in the Industry they are limited in their knowledge of the intimacy of inside and what really happens. Many girls work in brothels and agencies and many venture out on their own where they control their lives and what they do and how they do it. This is the sector I am mainly going to cover.
Private Sex Workers today are more professional and business like than ever before. They have goals and dreams of what they want and where they want to be in a few years time. Some have been left by partners to drown in their family debt, whilst others have just decided they want to be independent and build up their security so they don't have to rely on anyone else. Then of course we have the dark side of those who are pimped into the Industry or on drugs and out to make money to supply as they demand. But the majority are good and depending on where you shop, you will mainly find the good.
These girls have taken the time to set themselves up properly, arm themselves with the tools and the knowledge to fully present themselves with photos on the internet - even though they keep themselves totally private from their personal world. To do this job and see the clients they see and all the types of different personalities out there, they need to do it as another side to their character, so they keep their personal life separate. Each girl goes at it differently, hence you may get along with some and may not with others. It's not like it used to be in the olden days, miner's days, field days, bar tavern days where you get drunk and have whatever takes your fancy and too bad too sad if there was no connection. Guys today want to feel like they are with their girlfriends, want affection and passion and hugs and comfort to ease loneliness or just replace what might be missing at home. Of course this doesn't cover everybody, but for the majority it does.
So if the girl portrays herself as accurately as possible and presents herself as well as possible, then her business will grow with regulars coming back. They work more normal hours than all night (the private sector seems to be more of a day business then a night business!) They lead a fairly normal life with normal hours and control their environment. Putting themselves on the internet is a risk many take which is why their photos are well blurred etc.
Some Regular Escort Words - Dictionary & Meanings
Bareback = Sex without a condom - very high STD risk
BJ = Blow Job (oral sex on him)
BBBJ = Bareback Blow Job - Higher STD risk especially for the women.
BS = BodySlide - Girl massages you with her body
Cowgirl = Girl on top
DATY = Dining At The Y - Cunnilingus (oral sex on her)
DFK = Deep French Kissing
Digits = Fingers in vagina which can spread bacteria infections
Doggie style = Man behind girl, penis in vagina
French = oral sex
FS = Full Service - Intercourse
GFE = Girl Friend Experience - Briefly for most guys it includes or they would like to include, daty, dfk bbbj, msog, and digits. However most definitions are based on more of a friendly girlfriend interaction vs. a commercial hard core sex exchange and had nothing to do with unsafe sex acts.
Greek = Anal sex
GS = Golden Shower - Urinating on or being urinated on
Half & Half = oral sex and intercourse
HJ = Hand Job
ISO = In Search Of
Missionary = Man on top
MSOG = Multiple Shots on Goal - Some providers only allow one ejaculation others are based only on time as 1 hour.
PSE = Pure Sexual Experience or Porn Star Experience - for some it includes swallow, facial, Greek & vocal
Pearls = Pearl Necklace - ejaculation on her upper breasts
Reverse = You get to massage girl
Rimjob = Analingus
Russian & Spanish = Penis between girl's breasts
SOG = Shots On Goal - Number of times you release
T = Topless
Tea Bagging = Squatting over your lady and dipping your balls in her mouth.